Some of the conclusions of our conference were:

• The perception of men need to be changed as to what constitutes a man (from birth to man).
• Men need to realise the purpose of sex and that sex is not a game and it is not a method of proving that you are a man.
• Men have been taught to lie from birth and so telling the truth become difficult when they mature.
• Men need to know the benefits and the consequences of breaking their word and they need to believe those benefits and consequences are real.
• Men will say anything to get what they want until they realise that there is a “real” consequence to their action.
• Men do not think that having a child is not a bad thing, in fact it helps them prove that they are men and that everything works.
• If a young man is in a “fraternity, group or gang” they will get to know the power of keeping their word and the “real” consequences of breaking their word (immediate punishment).
• All broken promises (expectations) cause pain.
• There is a “real” consequence of breaking a contract, promise or your marriage vows; the question is whether you can live with those consequences.
• Men need to be aware that they can exclude themselves from their child/children life by their behaviour, not just towards their partner or their child but by the way they live their life and how the treat people.

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